FORGIVENESS
INTRODUCTION
1. In this series we have seen how The Way Of Christ is...
a. The way to God c. The way to truth e. The way of joy g. The way of unity
b. The way to life d. The way of love f. The way of peace h. The way of prayer
2. The Way Of Christ is also the way of forgiveness...
a. When Jesus taught how to pray, He stressed the need to forgive
b. Time and again, by precept and example, Jesus taught forgiveness
3. What does it mean to forgive...?
a. The Greek word is aphiemi
b. Literally: to send away, to give up, keep no longer - Thayer
c. To give up resentment against or the desire to punish; stop being angry with; pardon - Webster
[Let’s first look more closely at why The Way of Christ is...]
I. THE WAY OF FORGIVENESS
A. TAUGHT BY PRECEPT...
1. By Jesus, in His sayings
a. Teaching on prayer - Mt 6:14-15; Mk 11:25-26
b. Instructing His disciples - Mt 18:21-22; Lk 17:3-4
c. The parable of the unforgiving servant - Mt 18:23-35
2. By Paul, in his epistles
a. To the Ephesians - Ep 4:32
b. To the Colossians - Col 3:13
-- For those forgiven or seeking forgiveness, forgiving others is necessary!
B. TAUGHT BY EXAMPLE...
1. By Jesus, as He was being crucified
a. “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they do.” - Lk 23:34
b. In calling upon God to forgive, Jesus showed His willingness to forgive
2. By Stephen, as he was being stoned
a. “Lord, do not charge them with this sin.” - Ac 7:60
b. In calling upon Jesus to forgive, Stephen showed His willingness to forgive
-- Our Lord and His first martyr exemplify the spirit of forgiveness!
[The Way Of Christ is the way of forgiveness. But forgiving others is not human nature: “To err is
human, but to forgive is divine” (Alexander Pope). How can we be partakers of this divine nature..?]
II. THE PRACTICE OF FORGIVENESS
A. DEVELOPING FORGIVENESS...
Mark A. Copeland
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1. It helps to remember why we must forgive:
a. We cannot be forgiven by God unless we forgive others - Mt 6:14-15
b. The unforgiving person will be punished without mercy! - Mt 18:35; Jm 2:13
c. Vengeance belongs to God, not us; our duty is to show mercy - Ro 12:19-21
2. It helps to remember as we try to forgive:
a. Sins against us pale in comparison to our sins against God - Mt 18:23-34
b. We are called to follow the example of Christ - Ep 4:32; 5:1-2
c. Those who injure us need sympathy and love, which we owe them - Ro 13:8
3. It helps to remember practical reasons to forgive (from the Mayo Clinic website):
a. Healthier relationships
b. Greater spiritual and psychological well-being
c. Less stress and hostility
d. Lower blood pressure
e. Fewer symptoms of depression, anxiety and chronic pain
f. Lower risk of alcohol and substance abuse
-- The spirit and willingness to forgive increases as we grow in Christ
B. EXPRESSING FORGIVENESS...
1. We should forgive when others ask for it
a. Whenever a brother repents - Lk 17:3
b. Whenever a brother says “I repent” - Lk 17:4
2. Can we forgive those who have not asked for it, or repented?
a. It is true that God requires repentance before forgiveness - Ac 2:38; 3:19; 17:30
b. But we are not God; God is the only true Judge - Jm 4:11-12
c. God is perfect, He knows the hearts of men; we are prone to misread and misjudge
d. Ultimately it is God who forgives the guilt of sin; we can only give up grudges
e. Harboring grudges hurts ourselves, making us embittered (“judges with grudges”)
f. We are to forgive as we pray, not necessarily wait until one repents - Mk 11:25-26
g. Jesus and Stephen forgave others who had yet to repent - Lk 23:34; Ac 7:60
3. What about, “I’ll forgive, but not forget”?
a. “I can forgive, but I cannot forget, is only another way of saying, I will not forgive.
Forgiveness ought to be like a cancelled note - torn in two, and burned up, so that it never
can be shown against one.” - Henry Ward Beecher
b. Forgiveness is the letting go of resentment; remembering is not letting go!
-- Knowing my own imperfections, I prefer to err on the side of being too forgiving
CONCLUSION
1. We have considered why it is important to forgive others...
a. To receive forgiveness from God
b. To follow the example of Christ and His early disciples
2. This simply confirms what we studied previously...
a. The Way Of Christ is the way to life, love, joy, and peace
b. A path where forgiveness is both received and extended by those who are on it
“And whenever you stand praying, if you have anything against anyone, forgive him,
that your Father in heaven may also forgive you your trespasses. But if you do not
forgive, neither will your Father in heaven forgive your trespasses.” - Mk 11:25-26
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- (ARE YOU A CHRISTIAN) STAYING SAVED DB
- Abortion (forced termination)
- All authority
- All have sinned
- Are you a Christian
- A place for God`s name(this is it)
- Abounding hope
- Are you the enemy of God
- Amazing grace
- Awesome Father,Son,Holy spirit
- Audio Bible (KJV)
- Authority
- Abomination
- Accuser of GOD`S people
- Accuser
- AUDIO RIVERSIDE CHURCHOFCHRIST
- Adversary
- Apologetics press
- Born again
- Baptizm search for truth
- Acts conversion chart
- Baptizm immersion not sprinkle, pouring
- Baptizm NT
- Baptizm
- Bible read & listen
- Brand new creation
- Belief more than knowing there is a GOD
- Bethel
- Baptizm (antitype)
- Brain washed (believing lies)
- BAPTIZM POINT OF SALVATION
- Bible inspiration
- Being mistreated for doing good.
- Bible charts Donnie Barnes
- Bible verse of the day
- Be not many masters.
- Beyond the logos
- Baptizm forgiveness of sin, washed in the blood of JESUS
- Bible book outlines
- Bless your enemies curse not
- Bible`s scientific foreknowledge
- Children giving glory to GOD
- Can GOD`S house be established today?
- CONTACT US
- Condemn your brother with your tongue
- Church built by GOD
- Church built on Christ
- Christianity 101
- Childrens video
- Childrens : Digger Doug
- Christ
- CONTACT
- Church of Jesus Christ
- Church of CHRIST Romans 16:16
- Committed to GOD
- Cast the first stone
- Creation
- Dictionary
- Deception of false teachers
- Christs
- Did Jesus build more than 1 church?
- Divorce and remarriage
- Day of the Lord
- Denominationlism
- Drinking alcohol
- Diotrephes
- Falling away
- Does doctrine matter
- Filthy rags
- Forgiveness
- False preaching can keep u from heaven
- Faith the substance of all things
- Fake preachers
- False Teaching
- False teacher, False preacher DS
- Faith
- False Preachers
- Fabricated truth
- First gospel sermon
- Forget God?
- Give account for yourself
- GOD is righteous
- GOD`S PLAN IS NOT MAN`S DESIGN
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- GOD`S calling, the good new`s
- False brethren
- Gospel broadcasting network
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- Homosexuality
- Heaven/Hell
- How to get to heaven?
- Heart
- Hypocrites
- Hymns
- Have you obeyed the gospel?
- Hope
- How is the church organized?
- Inspiration what is it?
- Interview with satan(father of lies)
- In Christ
- Influence of evil
- In Jesus Christ
- In Christ the fullness of the Godhead
- Is there more than 1 church? no
- JESUS
- Jesus the way
- In Christ (what is it being in Christ)
- Jesus is Lord
- Inspired word of GOD
- Jesus Jesus Jesus
- Jesus is our faith to our beloved
- JESUS CHRIST IS LORD
- Jesus has come in the flesh
- Kenya gallery1
- Kingdom come ?
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- Jesus is Lord (Kurios)
- Lord`s church
- LOCATION OF ONE TRUE CHURCH
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- Lost
- LINKS
- Lying preachers
- LORDS church part 1
- Looking for things to get better
- Leaders of this world should be ashamed
- Lying Christians is their any without
- Lord`s supper
- Law of Liberty inCHRIST
- Light of the world
- Leading to Christ
- Lesson`s books of the bible gbn
- Love God, the creator of Love.
- Ladies videos
- Meddling & Gossip is sin
- Man`s device (not GOD`S)
- MURMURINGS, MURMURERS, MURMUR
- Lying 1
- None righteous no not one
- Making the change
- Man`s tradition or God`s word
- Moral issues
- New Creation
- Overcome evil with good
- No change
- Our GOD is a awesome GOD
- Preachers leading w/ no authority from GOD
- Obey the gospel
- Only 1 church (church of CHRIST)
- Pleasing God
- Pride of men hinder the advancement of the gospel
- Power of the tongue
- Persecution and Oppression
- Prayer
- Persecution
- Preaching Jesus
- Root of all evil
- practicing SIN
- REPENT!
- Riverside gallery
- Perverting the gospel
- Pray without ceasing
- Religious error
- Reject God
- Repent
- RESPONDING TO THE CALL OF GOD
- References on request
- Sober
- Scriptually organized w/o deacons?
- Stairway to heaven
- Searching for truth
- Sinners prayer 4min video
- Serving GOD or Self serving
- Salvation
- Sheet music
- Submit and we will pray for you
- Scripual and unscriptually organized churches
- Safe in the arms of GOD
- Service to GOD
- Such were some of you
- Searching for truth(book)
- Sincere,True Ministry
- STOP
- Spirit to the churches
- Speak evil of a Christian is sin against Christ
- SHEPHERD
- SERMONS
- SUNDAY APRIL 17 2022
- Slave of the creator
- Same sex marriage
- Thanks to GOD
- Truth about
- The holy spirit
- The dog has returned to his vomit
- The Church
- Truth
- Truth for the world
- The way we were
- The devil
- 2 Reasons to believe ap
- Those who persecute you
- U HAVE AN ENEMY!
- Unscriptual organization of the church
- Time for truth
- Unless the Lord build the house
- Vengeance
- What is the Gospel?
- WOE WOE WOE
- The Lord`s Supper
- When you die
- What must i do to be saves (transcript)
- James Watkins
- U WILL BE ACCOUNTABLE FOR IDLE WORDS
- Why so many churches (Transcript)
- Withdrawal fellowship
- World Video Bible School (WVBS)
- What names on your sign
- What GOD has cleansed
- Wonderful Grace
- What must i do to be saved?
- Worship
- Walking with GOD
- Where in the bible is your church mentioned
- Your unbelief
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