Whose family are you ruling?" 1Tim 3:5
God`s family (5:1-2)
INTRODUCTION
In his instructions to Timothy as a minister of the gospel, Paul counsels him on how to treat the members of the congregation - 1Ti 5:1-2
The figures used in this passage presuppose that we...
Are indeed a family
Should act accordingly
In this lesson, I would like to expound upon that thought. First, as Christians and members of the body of Christ...
WE ARE INDEED THE FAMILY OF GOD
THAT WE ARE THE FAMILY OF GOD...
Was alluded to earlier in this epistle - 1Ti 3:14-15
Was taught by Jesus during His ministry - Mt 12:46,47,48,49-50
WE BECAME MEMBERS OF THIS FAMILY...
By doing the will of the Father - Mt 12:50
By faith and baptism - Ga 3:26-27
By being "born again" of water and the Spirit - Jn 3:3,4-5
By being "adopted" (to use a different figure) - Ep 1:3,4-5
WHEN WE BECAME MEMBERS OF THIS FAMILY...
Some might have been cut off by our physical family - Mt 10:34,35,36,37,38-39
Yet we gained a much larger family - Mk 10:28,29-30
Included in this family are:
God as our Father in heaven
Jesus as our "elder brother" - He 2:11-12
All Christians as our brothers and sisters
This is a wonderful blessing we can enjoy now in Christ, if fully utilized. Yet with blessings come responsibilities; this is especially true when it comes to the family of God...
WE SHOULD TREAT ONE ANOTHER AS FAMILY
OUR TEXT DEMONSTRATES HOW...
From a young person's point of view, they should treat:
Older men as fathers
Older women as mothers
Younger men as brothers
Younger women as sisters
From an older person's point of view, they should treat:
Older men as brothers
Older women as sisters
Younger men as sons
Younger women as daughters
PAUL PROVIDES EXAMPLES...
As a father to a son (Timothy) - 1Ti 1:2,18; 2Ti 1:2; 2:1; Php 2:19,20,21-22
As one brother to another (Epaphroditus) - Php 2:25
As a son to a mother (the mother of Rufus) - Ro 16:13
In teaching on family duties - Ep 6:1,2,3-4
Like obedient children, we should show honor to our older brethren
Like loving fathers, tender treatment should be shown to younger brethren
ESPECIALLY WHERE CORRECTION IS NEEDED...
In our text, Paul instructs Timothy on how to exhort
When instructive criticism was necessary
When there is to be caution against "rebuke" (an otherwise natural inclination)
Lit., to strike upon, beat upon - Thayer
To chastise with words, to chide, upbraid, rebuke - ibid.
This can make quite a difference in handling differences
We would be gentle with one another - Ga 6:1
As David wanted for his son Absalom - 2Sa 18:5
[Not only is being the family of God a blessing in the best of times, it can also help when things are not going well; it can smooth the rough times in our relationships! Finally, a few thoughts on how...]
WE CAN DEVELOP A STRONG SENSE OF FAMILY
LEARNING BY EXAMPLE...
Children of loving families are more likely to produce loving families
As children of God, we can learn "family values" from our Father and Elder Brother
From God we learn what love is - 1Jn 4:9
From Jesus we learn how to love one another - 1Jn 3:16; Jn 13:34
Thus we are better prepared to love another
When we meditate upon the love of God
When we dwell in the love of the Father and the Son - Jn 14:21; 15:9-10
THROUGH SHARED EXPERIENCES...
For a relationship to exist requires shared experiences
It was shared experiences that bonded Paul and his brethren at Philippi - Php 1:3-8
Take advantage of opportunities to be with your brethren, and the sense of family will grow!
THROUGH PURITY OF CONDUCT...
Nothing destroys a sense of family like sin
Impure conduct caused Amnon to hate his sister Tamar - 2Sa 13:15
Impure conduct caused Absalom to hate his brother Amnon - 2Sa 13:22
In our text, Paul cautioned Timothy about his conduct toward younger sisters
"younger as sisters, with all purity" - 1Ti 5:2
He "was to indulge in no word, or look, or action, which could by any possibility be construed as manifesting an improper state of feeling." - Barnes
Improper conduct between brothers and sisters in Christ:
Has devastated many congregations
Destroys any sense of family
Thus all would do well to heed a later admonition by Paul - 2Ti 2:22
"Flee also youthful lusts"
"Pursue righteousness, faith, love, peace with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart"
CONCLUSION
One of the greatest blessings of being a Christian is being in the family of God...
To have God as your Father, Jesus as your Elder Brother
To have an unlimited supply of mothers, fathers, brothers and sisters
But to fully experience this blessing, we must treat one another like family...
In our love for one another
In our correction of one another
May we reap the fullest benefit of membership in the family of God, by heeding Paul's admonition to Timothy...!
HEAR
BELIEVE
REPENT
CONFESS
BE BAPTIZED IMMERSED IN WATER
LIVE FAITHFULLY​
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- Are you the enemy of God
- Audio Bible (KJV)
- All authority
- All things work together for good
- Accuser of GOD`S people
- Abomination
- Avoid being mislead by the devil
- Afraid in fear of Baptizm
- Authority
- Amazing grace
- Adversary
- Acts conversion chart
- Accuser
- AUDIO RIVERSIDE CHURCHOFCHRIST
- Baptizm immersion not sprinkle, pouring
- Baptizm (antitype)
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- Rebaptizm
- Baptizm NT
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- Belief more than knowing there is a GOD
- Brand new creation
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- Bible verse of the day
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- Blasphemy the name of Jesus
- Brain washed (believing lies)
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- Childrens video
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- Childrens : Digger Doug
- Christs
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- CHURCH IN NEEDS
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- Does doctrine matter
- Duty of care
- Drinking alcohol
- Divorce and remarriage
- Did Jesus build more than 1 church?
- Dictionary
- Day of the Lord
- Diotrephes
- Deception of false teachers
- Denominationlism
- Evil heart of unbelief
- Fabricated truth
- Faith the substance of all things
- Faith
- False prophets
- Filthy rags
- Fake preachers
- First gospel sermon
- False teacher, False preacher DS
- False Preachers
- False Teaching
- Forgiveness
- False brethren brought in
- Falling away
- False brethren
- False preaching can keep u from heaven
- Forget God?
- Gossip David Schmidt
- God`s will for you
- Grief
- GOD
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- Gospel broadcasting network
- GOD`S calling, the good new`s
- GOD`S PLAN IS NOT MAN`S DESIGN
- Give account for yourself
- GOD is righteous
- GOD built true church not man
- God`s preventative word James Watkins
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- How beautiful are the feet that preach
- How do you obey the gospel?
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- How to get to heaven?
- Heart
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- Homosexuality
- Hope
- Have you obeyed the gospel?
- Identity of the church
- Interview with satan(father of lies)
- Is there more than 1 church? no
- In Jesus Christ
- Is your heart right with GOD
- Influence
- Inspired word of GOD
- In Christ the fullness of the Godhead
- Inspiration what is it?
- In Christ
- In Christ (what is it being in Christ)
- Influence of evil
- Jesus (way)
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- Love God, the creator of Love.
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- Lord`s church
- Lamentations 3
- Lying wonder
- Leading to Christ
- Ladies videos
- Lying 1
- Lying preachers
- Lord`s supper
- Looking for things to get better
- LINKS
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- Light of the world
- More about JESUS
- Man`s device (not GOD`S)
- Mat 19:6
- Meddling & Gossip is sin
- Man`s tradition or God`s word
- MURMURINGS, MURMURERS, MURMUR
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- Moral issues
- None righteous no not one
- New Creation
- No change
- NT reveals one church
- Obey the gospel
- Overcoming the world
- Offenses
- Our GOD is a awesome GOD
- Only 1 church (church of CHRIST)
- Overcome evil with good
- Preachers leading w/ no authority from GOD
- Preach the word
- Pleasing God
- Preaching Jesus
- Persecution and Oppression
- Persecution
- Power of the tongue
- Pray without ceasing
- practicing SIN
- Pride of men hinder the advancement of the gospel
- Perverting the gospel
- Prayer
- Right hand of falsehood lesson by Steven Schiller
- References on request
- Reject God
- REPENT!
- Root of all evil
- RESPONDING TO THE CALL OF GOD
- Rule your own house?
- Riverside gallery
- Repent
- Religious error
- Such were some of you
- Repent Repent Repent
- Salvation
- ROCK SOLID FAITH JAMES WATKINS
- SIN
- Sober
- Sinners prayer 4min video
- Scriptually organized w/o deacons?
- Sheet music
- Safe in the arms of GOD
- Stairway to heaven
- Submit and we will pray for you
- Searching for truth
- Spirit to the churches
- Serving GOD or Self serving
- Service to GOD
- STOP
- Sound teatching
- Sincere,True Ministry
- SERMONS
- Slave of GOD
- Slave of the creator
- SHEPHERD
- Salvation of the LORD
- Spirit of GOD
- Searching for truth(book)
- Speaking evil of Christian brother
- Same sex marriage
- Speak evil of no man
- Scriptual and unscriptually organized churches
- Standard of authority
- Speak evil of a Christian is sin against Christ
- SINS
- SPIRIT & TRUTH
- Slander
- SUNDAY APRIL 17 2022
- The devil
- The children
- The dog has returned to his vomit
- Turn from sin to GOD
- Truth about
- Take the name of Jesus with you
- Truth
- 2 Reasons to believe ap
- Those who persecute you
- Truth for the world
- Time for truth
- The Lord`s Supper
- The Church
- Thanks to GOD
- The holy spirit
- This is God`s church
- The way we were
- U HAVE AN ENEMY!
- Unless the Lord build the house
- U WILL BE ACCOUNTABLE FOR IDLE WORDS
- Unscriptual organization of the church
- Unified church James Watkins
- Vengeance
- WOE WOE WOE
- What is the Gospel?
- What must i do to be saved?
- What names on your sign
- World Video Bible School (WVBS)
- What must i do to be saves (transcript)
- James Watkins
- When you die
- What GOD has cleansed
- Withdrawal fellowship
- Why so many churches (Transcript)
- Wearing the crown
- Whose family are u ruling
- Worship
- Wonderful Grace
- Where in the bible is your church mentioned
- Walking with GOD
- Worshipping idols not God
- Worship of idols instead of GOD
- WORSHIP NOV 6 2022
- Worship to God
- What is the church?
- Wonderfully made
- You must be born again
- You give good gifts
- Your unbelief
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