Whose family are you ruling?" 1Tim 3:5
God`s family (5:1-2)
INTRODUCTION
In his instructions to Timothy as a minister of the gospel, Paul counsels him on how to treat the members of the congregation - 1Ti 5:1-2
The figures used in this passage presuppose that we...
Are indeed a family
Should act accordingly
In this lesson, I would like to expound upon that thought. First, as Christians and members of the body of Christ...
WE ARE INDEED THE FAMILY OF GOD
THAT WE ARE THE FAMILY OF GOD...
Was alluded to earlier in this epistle - 1Ti 3:14-15
Was taught by Jesus during His ministry - Mt 12:46,47,48,49-50
WE BECAME MEMBERS OF THIS FAMILY...
By doing the will of the Father - Mt 12:50
By faith and baptism - Ga 3:26-27
By being "born again" of water and the Spirit - Jn 3:3,4-5
By being "adopted" (to use a different figure) - Ep 1:3,4-5
WHEN WE BECAME MEMBERS OF THIS FAMILY...
Some might have been cut off by our physical family - Mt 10:34,35,36,37,38-39
Yet we gained a much larger family - Mk 10:28,29-30
Included in this family are:
God as our Father in heaven
Jesus as our "elder brother" - He 2:11-12
All Christians as our brothers and sisters
This is a wonderful blessing we can enjoy now in Christ, if fully utilized. Yet with blessings come responsibilities; this is especially true when it comes to the family of God...
WE SHOULD TREAT ONE ANOTHER AS FAMILY
OUR TEXT DEMONSTRATES HOW...
From a young person's point of view, they should treat:
Older men as fathers
Older women as mothers
Younger men as brothers
Younger women as sisters
From an older person's point of view, they should treat:
Older men as brothers
Older women as sisters
Younger men as sons
Younger women as daughters
PAUL PROVIDES EXAMPLES...
As a father to a son (Timothy) - 1Ti 1:2,18; 2Ti 1:2; 2:1; Php 2:19,20,21-22
As one brother to another (Epaphroditus) - Php 2:25
As a son to a mother (the mother of Rufus) - Ro 16:13
In teaching on family duties - Ep 6:1,2,3-4
Like obedient children, we should show honor to our older brethren
Like loving fathers, tender treatment should be shown to younger brethren
ESPECIALLY WHERE CORRECTION IS NEEDED...
In our text, Paul instructs Timothy on how to exhort
When instructive criticism was necessary
When there is to be caution against "rebuke" (an otherwise natural inclination)
Lit., to strike upon, beat upon - Thayer
To chastise with words, to chide, upbraid, rebuke - ibid.
This can make quite a difference in handling differences
We would be gentle with one another - Ga 6:1
As David wanted for his son Absalom - 2Sa 18:5
[Not only is being the family of God a blessing in the best of times, it can also help when things are not going well; it can smooth the rough times in our relationships! Finally, a few thoughts on how...]
WE CAN DEVELOP A STRONG SENSE OF FAMILY
LEARNING BY EXAMPLE...
Children of loving families are more likely to produce loving families
As children of God, we can learn "family values" from our Father and Elder Brother
From God we learn what love is - 1Jn 4:9
From Jesus we learn how to love one another - 1Jn 3:16; Jn 13:34
Thus we are better prepared to love another
When we meditate upon the love of God
When we dwell in the love of the Father and the Son - Jn 14:21; 15:9-10
THROUGH SHARED EXPERIENCES...
For a relationship to exist requires shared experiences
It was shared experiences that bonded Paul and his brethren at Philippi - Php 1:3-8
Take advantage of opportunities to be with your brethren, and the sense of family will grow!
THROUGH PURITY OF CONDUCT...
Nothing destroys a sense of family like sin
Impure conduct caused Amnon to hate his sister Tamar - 2Sa 13:15
Impure conduct caused Absalom to hate his brother Amnon - 2Sa 13:22
In our text, Paul cautioned Timothy about his conduct toward younger sisters
"younger as sisters, with all purity" - 1Ti 5:2
He "was to indulge in no word, or look, or action, which could by any possibility be construed as manifesting an improper state of feeling." - Barnes
Improper conduct between brothers and sisters in Christ:
Has devastated many congregations
Destroys any sense of family
Thus all would do well to heed a later admonition by Paul - 2Ti 2:22
"Flee also youthful lusts"
"Pursue righteousness, faith, love, peace with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart"
CONCLUSION
One of the greatest blessings of being a Christian is being in the family of God...
To have God as your Father, Jesus as your Elder Brother
To have an unlimited supply of mothers, fathers, brothers and sisters
But to fully experience this blessing, we must treat one another like family...
In our love for one another
In our correction of one another
May we reap the fullest benefit of membership in the family of God, by heeding Paul's admonition to Timothy...!
HEAR
BELIEVE
REPENT
CONFESS
BE BAPTIZED IMMERSED IN WATER
LIVE FAITHFULLY​
- Home
- Abortion AP
- Abortion laws repealed thank GOD
- Abortion is murder?
- Abortion (forced termination)
- Animations GBN
- Abounding hope
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- Allelua Amen
- Are you a Christian
- All have sinned
- All scripture
- All authority
- (ARE YOU A CHRISTIAN) STAYING SAVED DB
- Accuser of GOD`S people
- Avoid being mislead by the devil
- Accuser
- Are you the enemy of God
- Abomination
- All power is of God
- Acts conversion chart
- Apologetics press
- Amazing grace
- Adversary
- Afraid in fear of Baptizm
- All things work together for good
- AUDIO RIVERSIDE CHURCHOFCHRIST
- Authority
- Baptizm (antitype)
- BAPTIZM POINT OF SALVATION
- Baptizm search for truth
- Baptizm NT
- Baptizm Greek Baptizo fully covered
- Rebaptizm
- Baptizm forgiveness of sin, washed in the blood of JESUS
- Baptizm immersion not sprinkle, pouring
- Baptized into Christ
- Baptizm point
- Born of water & spirit
- Belief more than knowing there is a GOD
- Blessed is the man
- Bible super human
- Born again
- Bible verse of the day
- Bible God breathed
- Brand new creation
- Brain washed (believing lies)
- Being mistreated for doing good.
- Bought with a price
- Bible is totally reliable
- Bible charts Donnie Barnes
- Blessing or curse
- Bless your enemies curse not
- Be not many masters.
- Rebaptizm scriptually
- Beyond the logos
- Bethel
- Bible read & listen
- Bible inspiration
- Blasphemy the name of Jesus
- Christ
- Christian and spiritual growth Donnie Barnes
- Church built by GOD
- Coming home
- CONTACT
- CONTACT US
- Cast the first stone
- Church built on Christ
- Christianity 101
- Choice 2
- Committed to GOD
- Children giving glory to GOD
- Children learn what they live
- Childrens video
- Christianity full time privilledge
- Counsel of GOD superior than man
- Creation
- Choice I
- Church of CHRIST Romans 16:16
- Condemn your brother with your tongue
- Can GOD`S house be established today?
- Childrens : Digger Doug
- Christs
- Church of Jesus Christ
- CHURCH IN NEEDS
- Dishonoring GOD
- Did Jesus build more than 1 church?
- Dictionary
- Does doctrine matter
- Drinking alcohol
- Deception of false teachers
- Day of the Lord
- Duty of care
- Denominationlism
- Divorce and remarriage
- Essentials of salvation Sunday april 16 2023
- Evil heart of unbelief
- Fabricated truth
- Filthy rags
- False Teaching
- Forgiveness
- False prophets
- Faith
- First gospel sermon
- Falling away
- False preaching can keep u from heaven
- False teacher, False preacher DS
- False brethren
- False Preachers
- False brethren brought in
- Forget God?
- Faith the substance of all things
- Fake preachers
- Grief
- GOD`S PLAN IS NOT MAN`S DESIGN
- GOD
- Gossip David Schmidt
- GOD created all things in 6 days
- Give account for yourself
- Gospel broadcasting network
- Give no offence
- GOD is righteous
- God`s preventative word James Watkins
- GOD`S calling, the good new`s
- GOD first
- GOD built true church not man
- Gospel Enacted
- God`s will for you
- Gospel hid from the lost
- Gospel (good news)
- Hypocrites
- How to get to heaven?
- Hear believe repent confess baptizm
- How do you obey the gospel?
- How is the church organized?
- Hymns
- Hear-believe-repent-confess-be immersed
- Hypocrites1
- Homosexuality
- How beautiful are the feet that preach
- Heart
- Heaven/Hell
- Hope
- Have you obeyed the gospel?
- Is Any Church the LORDS NO! NO!
- Interview with satan(father of lies)
- In Jesus Christ
- Identity of the church
- Inspired word of GOD
- Influence
- In Christ the fullness of the Godhead
- Influence of evil
- In Christ (what is it being in Christ)
- In Christ
- Is there more than 1 church? no
- Inspiration what is it?
- Is your heart right with GOD
- Jesus (way)
- JESUS STICKERS
- Jesus is our faith to our beloved
- Jesus in new testament
- Jesus never changes / Changing world James Watkins
- Jesus Jesus Jesus
- Jesus is Lord (Kurios)
- JESUS
- Jesus & children
- Jesus has come in the flesh
- JESUS CHRIST IS LORD
- Kingdom come ?
- Kenya gallery1
- Jesus the way
- Lying Christians is their any without
- Lose your soul?
- LOCATION OF ONE TRUE CHURCH
- LORDS church part 1
- Leaders of this world should be ashamed
- Lost
- Lord`s church
- Light at Riverside Church of CHRIST
- Lamentations 3
- Love God, the creator of Love.
- Love of GOD overcomes
- Lord`s supper
- Lying wonder
- LINKS
- Ladies videos
- Leading to Christ
- Lying preachers
- Looking for things to get better
- Lesson`s books of the bible gbn
- Light of the world
- Law of Liberty inCHRIST
- Man`s device (not GOD`S)
- MURMURINGS, MURMURERS, MURMUR
- Lying 1
- Mat 19:6
- More about JESUS
- Making the change
- Man`s tradition or God`s word
- Moral issues
- Meddling & Gossip is sin
- New Creation
- None righteous no not one
- No change
- NT reveals one church
- One Body
- Offenses
- Overcoming the world
- Our GOD is a awesome GOD
- Obey the gospel
- Overcome evil with good
- OneGodOneChurch
- Only 1 church (church of CHRIST)
- Pleasing God
- Preachers leading w/ no authority from GOD
- Persecution and Oppression
- Preaching Jesus
- practicing SIN
- Pray without ceasing
- Prayer
- Perverting the gospel
- Persecution
- Pride of men hinder the advancement of the gospel
- References on request
- Power of the tongue
- Right hand of falsehood lesson by Steven Schiller
- Reject God
- Root of all evil
- REPENT!
- Riverside gallery
- Preach the word
- ROCK SOLID FAITH JAMES WATKINS
- Religious error
- RESPONDING TO THE CALL OF GOD
- Repent
- Repent Repent Repent
- Sinners prayer 4min video
- SIN
- Such were some of you
- Safe in the arms of GOD
- SINS
- Sheet music
- Sober
- Submit and we will pray for you
- Scriptually organized w/o deacons?
- Serving GOD or Self serving
- SERMONS
- Sound teaching
- Spirit of GOD
- Rule your own house?
- Salvation
- Stairway to heaven
- SHEPHERD
- Searching for truth
- Service to GOD
- Slave of the creator
- Same sex marriage
- Standard of authority
- Sincere,True Ministry
- STOP
- Spirit to the churches
- Speak evil of a Christian is sin against Christ
- Scriptual and unscriptually organized churches
- Searching for truth(book)
- SUNDAY APRIL 17 2022
- Speak evil of no man
- SPIRIT & TRUTH
- Speaking evil of Christian brother
- Slander
- Short lessons
- Thanks to GOD
- Truth about
- The dog has returned to his vomit
- The children
- 2 Reasons to believe ap
- Take the name of Jesus with you
- Slave of GOD
- Time for truth
- The holy spirit
- Salvation of the LORD
- The Lord`s Supper
- The Church
- Those who persecute you
- This is God`s church
- The way we were
- The Body is the Church
- Truth for the world
- The devil
- The Lord is my shepherd
- Truth
- U WILL BE ACCOUNTABLE FOR IDLE WORDS
- Unscriptual organization of the church
- Turn from sin to GOD
- Unless the Lord build the house
- Unified church James Watkins
- Vengeance
- WOE WOE WOE
- What names on your sign
- World Video Bible School (WVBS)
- U HAVE AN ENEMY!
- Wearing the crown
- Withdrawal fellowship
- James Watkins
- What GOD has cleansed
- Where in the bible is your church mentioned
- What is the Gospel?
- What must i do to be saves (transcript)
- When you die
- Worship
- Whose family are u ruling
- Wonderful Grace
- What must i do to be saved?
- Worshipping idols not God
- Walking with GOD
- Worship to God
- WORSHIP NOV 6 2022
- Why so many churches (Transcript)
- What is the church?
- Worship of idols instead of GOD
- Wicked
- Wonderfully made
- WE NEED JESUS
- You are not your own
- You must be born again
- Your unbelief
- You give good gifts
- You can join any denomination except the LORDS CHURCH
- Who`s church is it? Deity
- Home James Watkins
- Gossip is sin
- Home
- Abortion AP
- Abortion laws repealed thank GOD
- Abortion is murder?
- Abortion (forced termination)
- Animations GBN
- Abounding hope
- A place for God`s name(this is it)
- Allelua Amen
- Are you a Christian
- All have sinned
- All scripture
- All authority
- (ARE YOU A CHRISTIAN) STAYING SAVED DB
- Accuser of GOD`S people
- Avoid being mislead by the devil
- Accuser
- Are you the enemy of God
- Abomination
- All power is of God
- Acts conversion chart
- Apologetics press
- Amazing grace
- Adversary
- Afraid in fear of Baptizm
- All things work together for good
- AUDIO RIVERSIDE CHURCHOFCHRIST
- Authority
- Baptizm (antitype)
- BAPTIZM POINT OF SALVATION
- Baptizm search for truth
- Baptizm NT
- Baptizm Greek Baptizo fully covered
- Rebaptizm
- Baptizm forgiveness of sin, washed in the blood of JESUS
- Baptizm immersion not sprinkle, pouring
- Baptized into Christ
- Baptizm point
- Born of water & spirit
- Belief more than knowing there is a GOD
- Blessed is the man
- Bible super human
- Born again
- Bible verse of the day
- Bible God breathed
- Brand new creation
- Brain washed (believing lies)
- Being mistreated for doing good.
- Bought with a price
- Bible is totally reliable
- Bible charts Donnie Barnes
- Blessing or curse
- Bless your enemies curse not
- Be not many masters.
- Rebaptizm scriptually
- Beyond the logos
- Bethel
- Bible read & listen
- Bible inspiration
- Blasphemy the name of Jesus
- Christ
- Christian and spiritual growth Donnie Barnes
- Church built by GOD
- Coming home
- CONTACT
- CONTACT US
- Cast the first stone
- Church built on Christ
- Christianity 101
- Choice 2
- Committed to GOD
- Children giving glory to GOD
- Children learn what they live
- Childrens video
- Christianity full time privilledge
- Counsel of GOD superior than man
- Creation
- Choice I
- Church of CHRIST Romans 16:16
- Condemn your brother with your tongue
- Can GOD`S house be established today?
- Childrens : Digger Doug
- Christs
- Church of Jesus Christ
- CHURCH IN NEEDS
- Dishonoring GOD
- Did Jesus build more than 1 church?
- Dictionary
- Does doctrine matter
- Drinking alcohol
- Deception of false teachers
- Day of the Lord
- Duty of care
- Denominationlism
- Divorce and remarriage
- Essentials of salvation Sunday april 16 2023
- Evil heart of unbelief
- Fabricated truth
- Filthy rags
- False Teaching
- Forgiveness
- False prophets
- Faith
- First gospel sermon
- Falling away
- False preaching can keep u from heaven
- False teacher, False preacher DS
- False brethren
- False Preachers
- False brethren brought in
- Forget God?
- Faith the substance of all things
- Fake preachers
- Grief
- GOD`S PLAN IS NOT MAN`S DESIGN
- GOD
- Gossip David Schmidt
- GOD created all things in 6 days
- Give account for yourself
- Gospel broadcasting network
- Give no offence
- GOD is righteous
- God`s preventative word James Watkins
- GOD`S calling, the good new`s
- GOD first
- GOD built true church not man
- Gospel Enacted
- God`s will for you
- Gospel hid from the lost
- Gospel (good news)
- Hypocrites
- How to get to heaven?
- Hear believe repent confess baptizm
- How do you obey the gospel?
- How is the church organized?
- Hymns
- Hear-believe-repent-confess-be immersed
- Hypocrites1
- Homosexuality
- How beautiful are the feet that preach
- Heart
- Heaven/Hell
- Hope
- Have you obeyed the gospel?
- Is Any Church the LORDS NO! NO!
- Interview with satan(father of lies)
- In Jesus Christ
- Identity of the church
- Inspired word of GOD
- Influence
- In Christ the fullness of the Godhead
- Influence of evil
- In Christ (what is it being in Christ)
- In Christ
- Is there more than 1 church? no
- Inspiration what is it?
- Is your heart right with GOD
- Jesus (way)
- JESUS STICKERS
- Jesus is our faith to our beloved
- Jesus in new testament
- Jesus never changes / Changing world James Watkins
- Jesus Jesus Jesus
- Jesus is Lord (Kurios)
- JESUS
- Jesus & children
- Jesus has come in the flesh
- JESUS CHRIST IS LORD
- Kingdom come ?
- Kenya gallery1
- Jesus the way
- Lying Christians is their any without
- Lose your soul?
- LOCATION OF ONE TRUE CHURCH
- LORDS church part 1
- Leaders of this world should be ashamed
- Lost
- Lord`s church
- Light at Riverside Church of CHRIST
- Lamentations 3
- Love God, the creator of Love.
- Love of GOD overcomes
- Lord`s supper
- Lying wonder
- LINKS
- Ladies videos
- Leading to Christ
- Lying preachers
- Looking for things to get better
- Lesson`s books of the bible gbn
- Light of the world
- Law of Liberty inCHRIST
- Man`s device (not GOD`S)
- MURMURINGS, MURMURERS, MURMUR
- Lying 1
- Mat 19:6
- More about JESUS
- Making the change
- Man`s tradition or God`s word
- Moral issues
- Meddling & Gossip is sin
- New Creation
- None righteous no not one
- No change
- NT reveals one church
- One Body
- Offenses
- Overcoming the world
- Our GOD is a awesome GOD
- Obey the gospel
- Overcome evil with good
- OneGodOneChurch
- Only 1 church (church of CHRIST)
- Pleasing God
- Preachers leading w/ no authority from GOD
- Persecution and Oppression
- Preaching Jesus
- practicing SIN
- Pray without ceasing
- Prayer
- Perverting the gospel
- Persecution
- Pride of men hinder the advancement of the gospel
- References on request
- Power of the tongue
- Right hand of falsehood lesson by Steven Schiller
- Reject God
- Root of all evil
- REPENT!
- Riverside gallery
- Preach the word
- ROCK SOLID FAITH JAMES WATKINS
- Religious error
- RESPONDING TO THE CALL OF GOD
- Repent
- Repent Repent Repent
- Sinners prayer 4min video
- SIN
- Such were some of you
- Safe in the arms of GOD
- SINS
- Sheet music
- Sober
- Submit and we will pray for you
- Scriptually organized w/o deacons?
- Serving GOD or Self serving
- SERMONS
- Sound teaching
- Spirit of GOD
- Rule your own house?
- Salvation
- Stairway to heaven
- SHEPHERD
- Searching for truth
- Service to GOD
- Slave of the creator
- Same sex marriage
- Standard of authority
- Sincere,True Ministry
- STOP
- Spirit to the churches
- Speak evil of a Christian is sin against Christ
- Scriptual and unscriptually organized churches
- Searching for truth(book)
- SUNDAY APRIL 17 2022
- Speak evil of no man
- SPIRIT & TRUTH
- Speaking evil of Christian brother
- Slander
- Short lessons
- Thanks to GOD
- Truth about
- The dog has returned to his vomit
- The children
- 2 Reasons to believe ap
- Take the name of Jesus with you
- Slave of GOD
- Time for truth
- The holy spirit
- Salvation of the LORD
- The Lord`s Supper
- The Church
- Those who persecute you
- This is God`s church
- The way we were
- The Body is the Church
- Truth for the world
- The devil
- The Lord is my shepherd
- Truth
- U WILL BE ACCOUNTABLE FOR IDLE WORDS
- Unscriptual organization of the church
- Turn from sin to GOD
- Unless the Lord build the house
- Unified church James Watkins
- Vengeance
- WOE WOE WOE
- What names on your sign
- World Video Bible School (WVBS)
- U HAVE AN ENEMY!
- Wearing the crown
- Withdrawal fellowship
- James Watkins
- What GOD has cleansed
- Where in the bible is your church mentioned
- What is the Gospel?
- What must i do to be saves (transcript)
- When you die
- Worship
- Whose family are u ruling
- Wonderful Grace
- What must i do to be saved?
- Worshipping idols not God
- Walking with GOD
- Worship to God
- WORSHIP NOV 6 2022
- Why so many churches (Transcript)
- What is the church?
- Worship of idols instead of GOD
- Wicked
- Wonderfully made
- WE NEED JESUS
- You are not your own
- You must be born again
- Your unbelief
- You give good gifts
- You can join any denomination except the LORDS CHURCH
- Who`s church is it? Deity
- Home James Watkins
- Gossip is sin
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